Wednesday, March 31, 2010
I made it!
My Favorite New Cleaning Product
April Fools!
Monday, March 29, 2010
Happy Birthday to Me!
Home Movie Night
Friday, March 26, 2010
Jelly Bean Wreath - Future Project
Tuesday, March 23, 2010
Friday, March 19, 2010
Ann Landers - The Station
For years, we had talked of "someday" going to Paris, a city I fell in love with as a GI.
As soon as the doctor OK'd the trip, we went to Paris and had the most beautiful vacation of our 43 years. My lovely wife passed away a year and half after the diagnosis.
I have since taken the liberty of passing copies of that column to friends. One purchased his "someday" car, another went on a long-delayed trip. But it can also mean visiting a sick friend - and that "someday" should be now.
There is so much hurt in looking back and remembering those things we intended to do and didn't.
Thank you,
Dear Irv: You were dear to let me know what "The Station" meant to your life. Here it is for all the others who haven't as yet learned that lesson:
The Station
by Robert J. Hastings
Tucked away in our subconscious is an idyllic vision. We see ourselves on a long trip that spans the continent. We are traveling by train. Out the windows we drink in the passing scene of cars on nearby highways, of children waving at a crossing, of cattle grazing on a distant hillside, of smoke pouring from a power plant, of row upon row of corn and wheat, of flatlands and valleys, of mountains and rolling hillsides, of city skylines and village halls.
But uppermost in our minds is the final destination. On a certain day at a certain hour we will pull into the station. Bands will be playing and flags waving. Once we get there, so many wonderful dreams will come true and the pieces of our lives will fit together like a completed jigsaw puzzle. How restlessly we pace the aisles, damning the minutes for loitering - waiting, waiting, waiting for the station.
"When we reach the station, that will be it!" we cry. "When I'm 18." "When I buy a new 450SL Mercedes Benz!" "When I put the last kid through college." "When I have paid off the mortgage!" "When I get a promotion." "When I reach the age of retirement, I shall live happily ever after!"
Sooner or later we must realize there is no station, no one place to arrive at once and for all. The true joy of life is the trip. The station is only a dream. It constantly outdistances us.
"Relish the moment" is a good motto, especially when coupled with Palm 118:24: "This is the day which the Lord hath made; we will rejoice and be glad in it." It isn't the burdens of today that drive men mad. It is the regrets over yesterday and the fear of tomorrow. Regret and fear are twin thieves who rob us of today.
So, stop pacing the aisles and counting the miles. Instead, climb more mountains, eat more ice cream, go barefoot more often, swim more rivers, watch more sunsets, laugh more, cry less. Life must be lived as we go along. The station will come soon enough.
Thursday, March 18, 2010
Eat Pray Love
Yes, Still.
I know, you must think I have some kind of mental challenge that it takes me so long to read a single book.
But, really I don't.
My challenge is sleep.
I'm a night owl, so I stay up doing other things, like
And, yes, I dog-ear the pages...sue me.
The problem is that I am so tired by the time I get to bed and I very rarely have a hard time falling asleep, so I can usually get only a couple of pages in at a time.
Basically, I read books two to four pages a day, at a time, if I'm lucky, so it takes me awhile.
But, I get there. I have always loved to read, and still do, but I also love my sleep.
Back to Eat, Pray, Love. I love this book.
There are parts in it that describe, almost to a T, some of the darkest moments of my life. I feel as if I rally behind this woman seeking...herself, God.
Love it.
Love it even more now that Julia Roberts is in the movie coming out. I saw a preview tonight and I just can't wait.
Go, read it.
But, try to read it faster than me, or you won't be in time for the movie.